2. COMMUNICATION. We’ve learned to talk RIGHT to each other. To talk about anything and everything. To LISTEN to each other, to look at things not only from our perspective but also to swap positions with each other. I have learned to bridle my tongue (Yes I was a nagging wife), to be swift to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger. We have learned to compliment each other even for the least of things, for efforts made towards a positive change of behavior or attitude.